Traditional vs Alternative Funeral Services Rottingdean

Today’s funeral services offer a seemingly endless variety of options to choose from. At Sussex Funeral Services, we can help you navigate these extensive options, from where to hold the ceremony to the flower arrangements, and help you make the right choices for your family.

When it comes to funeral preparations, the first major decision that families of the deceased face is often whether to hold a traditional or an alternative funeral ceremony. Both types of ceremonies can be religious or secular in nature according to the wishes of the deceased. On this page, we will describe the essential elements of these two types of funeral services and the options for personalisation available for each.

Traditional Funeral Services

“One of the recognitions shared by humans throughout the world and over time is the importance of ritual.” ~ Kenneth J. Doka

The details of the traditional funeral service have slowly changed throughout the years, but the broader elements of today’s traditional ceremonies would still be recognised by those who lived hundreds of years ago. At Sussex Funeral Services, we can arrange a traditional funeral service for your loved one that incorporates all of these well-known rites of passage that honour the life and death of the departed.

Traditional funerals follow an established etiquette for each stage of the ceremony and may include:

  • A formal procession lead by a hearse to escort your loved one to the cemetery or crematorium
  • A minister (religious or secular) to officiate the service
  • Readings and/or prayers chosen by the loved ones and family of the departed
  • A formal service at the local parish church followed by the committal at the cemetery or crematorium, or a full service at the cemetery or crematorium chapel

These are only a few of the primary traditional funeral rituals. These may vary for religious ceremonies according to the rites and customs of that religion.

Alternative Funeral Services

Today, increasing numbers of families are choosing personalised and unique ceremonies composed of self-designed rites and rituals over the traditional approach. These ceremonies typically focus on the celebration of life rather than the confronting of death. At Sussex Funeral Services, we can help you prepare an alternative funeral to mark the passing of your loved one that honours their personality and the way in which they lived their life.

The options available for alternative funerals are nearly endless. You can choose from a “green” woodland burial, a sea burial, or perhaps a simple civil ceremony at a crematorium. Whatever option you choose, we can help you incorporate personalised touches that create a meaningful and inspiration ceremony that is truly unique. You may also wish to create a blend of traditional and non-traditional funeral elements.

Regardless of the type of funeral you prefer, whether its completely traditional, completely unique, or a personalised mix of the two, at Sussex Funeral Services we will offer you the choice that you need to create a deeply touching and memorable ceremony that fully honours the life and passing of your loved one. We will gently guide you through the decision-making process, exploring the various possibilities to ensure that the funeral you design will be fully in keeping with your wishes.

At Sussex Funerals, we will never rush you into making decisions, instead taking as much time as you require to help you choose what kind of funeral is right for your loved one, from the big decisions down to the tiny flourishes and gestures that help make each ceremony personal and heartfelt.

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Located on Portland Road in Hove, Sussex Funeral Services provides comprehensive funeral care and celebrancy services to the Rottingdean community. Contact us today for a free, no-obligation consultation to see how we can help you.

I cannot recommend Sussex Funeral Services more highly. They handled all of our requests with great sensitivity and professionalism. Everything was explained clearly and in sufficient detail. Different service/cost options were discussed, and at no point did we feel unnecessarily overcharged. Nothing was too much trouble, they are lovely people and gave us really wonderful service.
Ann Gray
Ann Gray
06:37 20 Feb 20
It is never an easy time, saying goodbye to a loved one. Philip was great, helping us every step of the way. We had a dignified and fitting send off for my Father in law George.
dawn patram
dawn patram
13:03 19 Feb 20
I can not recommend highly enough Sussex Funeral Service extremely professional and caring and superb customer service, nothing was too much trouble in guiding us through a difficult time.
Nick Hackman
Nick Hackman
17:21 05 Feb 20
Truly an amazing funeral directors. Helped us bury my dad when it was so difficult for us. Coming from a culturally diverse background, it was nice to have people who worked around us to ensure my dad had the best, rather than have us to confirm to the service. Service is what we experienced from other funeral directors, therefore we moved to Sussex Funeral Services. I highly recommend Sussex Funeral Services for a personalised service which is people focus and they will help work within your budget.
Kenya Simpson Martin
Kenya Simpson Martin
16:33 28 Dec 19
Philip and Sallie provided a truly wonderful service at a very difficult moment in my life ....... and went the extra mile all the way round. I would thoroughly recommend them. Thank you Philip and Sally.
Really wonderful service from Phil and the team. Made everything seamless and very supportive all the way through. I would highly recommend to anyone.
bianca kokkolas
bianca kokkolas
15:17 13 Dec 19
From the moment that I met the team they were fantastic. Funerals are never an easy thing to be burdened with but the sussex funeral service helped put me and my family at ease with there attention to detail and their overall organisation. We would highly recommend their services.
Joseph B
Joseph B
14:08 13 Dec 19
Philip,I just wanted to thank you formally for all your help in designing and delivering Joyce's funeral. I didn't really know how to go about choosing a funeral director, and I'm so glad I chose you. You gave extremely good advice about the design of the service. Throughout the process you have been very helpful and gave me a lot of reassurance through your obvious good planning, professionalism and expertise. And you provided me with great people to work with - Lisa with the flowers and, in particular, the wonderful Jen.I'm sure you know that this has been the most difficult time of my life. I'm very pleased with the way that the funeral went - as were all the people there. So you have my gratitude for making it a success and for the fact that the process was more pain free than I would have dared to imagine.Warm regards,Ed Hagger
Joyce Brown
Joyce Brown
16:47 30 Aug 19